Gone are the days when
parents were required to be strict disciplinarians. Nowadays, parents prefer to
be friends with their children.
Learn from SRK: Shah Rukh once said in an
interview:
“I
love my children not because they are my children, but because I have garnered
a friendship with them. I am realising this… as they are getting older, they
are my greatest friends. I think my mental age is between 12 to 14, so it is
nice to have two friends that I can ever have.”
In fact, Suhana gifted her dad a beautiful friendship
band on Friendship Day, prompting the actor to tweet, “Feeling friendly now.”
Nowadays, inter-faith or
inter-caste marriages are pretty common. But, the problem arises when a child
is born. Which religion should he or she follow?
Learn from SRK: Shah Rukh Khan has a unique
solution for such parents.He says,
“I
don’t teach my children what is Hindu and what is Muslim.”
A liberal man, Shah Rukh, keeps idols of Hindu Gods right
next to his Quran. He believes that children should know about God and nothing
else. Well, not just this. Shah Rukh Khan has named his youngest son AbRam, and
talking about his choice of such a unique name, the actor has been quoted
saying,
“His
name is based on a variation of Prophet Abraham. And, I liked the connotation
that it is kind of a secular name (with the word ‘Ram’ in it).”
Many parents feel guilty
about the fact that they do not spend enough time with their children. So, they
shower their kids with expensive gifts to make up for the lack of time.
“One
of those days when I go through the emotions. Cycling with Suhana was the
highlight.. need to do it more.”
He even attends taekwondo tournaments, whenever Suhana
and Aryan participate in them. He gives them pep talks before their bouts and
cheers the loudest when they win. He drives to the airport to fetch
Aryan everytime he comes to visit his parents from London.
You must give your
children a chance to fight their own battles, but there are times when they
need your tender loving care too.
Learn from SRK: Shah Rukh Khan was widely
criticised for misbehaving with the guards in Mumbai’s Wankhede stadium, but he
still remains unapologetic about it.
“I
took little children for the match and 40 grown-up people came charging
aggressively at me. I think my behaviour is absolutely correct. I would still
do the same thing if they misbehaved with my kids or kids that I am taking care
of.”
SRK also does not want his children to be in the media
glare and it is for this reason, he sent his son, Aryan, to study abroad, where
he will be away from the limelight. Even after his third child AbRam was born,
Shah Rukh made the decision of keeping him away from the media glare. He has
even said, “He (AbRam) is not meant for flashbulbs. I don’t want him to be
a participant in this circus of public life that I am a part of. That is what I
do… Public life… The good, bad, ugly, goodness of media, the strangeness… I am
part of it, not my children.“
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